Ellie Week 10: PAP "Girls" by Nicole Blackman
The poem “Girls” by Nicole Blackman is about what girls will stereotypically go through after a breakup. It also gives advice on how to get over your ex and reassures you that there are other girls going through what you’re going through too. One of my favorite lines is “When he leaves, he leaves a space, a big or little airless place that begs to be filled.” This shows how many people will feel empty after a breakup and need to keep themself busy to fill the hole. Blackman mentions this as well and says “So you work and clean and call and cook and write and drink and read and sleep and shop and say This is fine.” She also mentions how some relationships end for the better, maybe they could’ve been toxic or abusive, but you still have a connection to them. “It's kind of like losing a dog. You'll miss him but maybe it's better this way.” I think this line out of all of them is the most relatable. Even after losing someone like a friend, a lot of times it is for the better an...